“Everybody has secrets…..”

“Everybody has secrets…..”
This is the title of a supposedly korean R(A) show screened only in Cathay Orchard (cineleisure), then I realized it’s only NC-16 (disappointment!!)

Tis is the review:
“Mi-young’s boyfriend, Soo-Hyun is very attractive and also intelligent. Soo-hyun also gets involved with Mi-Young’s two older sisters, married Jin-young and naïve Sun-young. These three sisters can’t help falling in love with Soo-hyun. But secrets of this tangled love story among three sisters and Soo-hyun will be revealed…”

anyway… HERE’S the SPOILER!!
In the end none of the 3 sisters knows abt each other’s affair with that (lucky) guy and the guy did not end up with any of the 3 girls... instead each of them found their respective partners, happy with their lives… so……. Wad’s the point of the whole story then???

“who doesn’t haf secrets?” says the male lead..

yah who doesn’t haf? Anyone of u dare to say tat u bare ur heart n souls to at least 1 person in ur life??

1. I believe that each and everyone of us has an angel and a devil in his/her mind. (like wad we always see in Disney’s cartoon. i.e., Donald Duck) no one, yes, no one can be a saint all the time. At any one time there muz be a moment where the better (or worse) side of a person takes over, whether he succumb to temptation, choose easy way out, convenience blah blah…

2. the relationship betwn 2 human is such tat it’s necessary to lie…. ppl r apt to listen on to certain things: u like to hear tis, u dun like to hear tis…. U hope to know tat tis happened and tat has not… and to keep a relationship running, u need to say the “correct” things… aiyah im sure many of us haf this sort of experience rite?

Tat day I was listening to 933 and they were talking abt long-running relationships, as in BGR, marriage etc. then tis auntie (married for 20 yrs le still not auntie meh?) called in to contribute…

DJ: in ur opinion, wad is impt in keeping a relationship alive, and in ur case, still so loving for so many yrs?
Auntie: I believe the most impt thing to be truthful and thrust each other.

hmm… really…?
how is tat possible?? say if 1 wanna be totally truthful to the other, it’ll also mean tat the other will haf to haf a heart wide enough (心胸宽阔) to accept everything tat’s being told? Even if so, is the other one also deceiving him/herself in trying to accept wad he/she was being told?

Wad’s ya stand?